Ancestor Worship

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Today is the 5th Anniversary of my father's death.

(c) Lonely Coyote, 2015
His death had a profound effect on my life, my own healing work, and my ability to hold the space needed for others to grieve parental deaths. I moved to Maryland and started a new life after his death, and haven't been back to NYC since (although I am terribly homesick).

(c) Lonely Coyote, 2015
Miss you Daddy, and wish you were here. What is remembered, lives.

(c) Lonely Coyote, 2015
Location: Flushing, Queens, NY, USA

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